You may not immediately think of Estate Planning as a Gift of Love. You might more readily think about matching sweaters or a family vacation. However, the gift of an estate plan will be remembered because it demonstrates your ability to take care of your family and could help build wealth across generations. A recent article from CNBC Money Report, “Here’s why estate planning is a gift to your family,” explains how this works.
Remember, there’s no relationship between creating a will and signing documents and something happening to you immediately afterward (hopefully). This notion keeps many otherwise responsible adults from taking care of their estate plans. Please don’t fall prey to it.
I don’t like going to the doctor. A good friend scolded me for this attitude by reminding me, “It’s not about you!” By and large, neither is doing an estate plan.
Another point is that families fight over money and possessions, even when relationships are good. Without clear instructions provided in an estate plan, a family undergoing the loss of a parent is vulnerable to fighting and litigation. Leaving no plan is setting the table for disputes.
You’ll want to have a Last Will and Testament and, depending on your situation, possibly trusts, a Power of Attorney for financial and legal matters if you are incapacitated, and a Healthcare Power of Attorney), so someone can make medical decisions and talk with treating doctors in case you can’t communicate.
What happens when there is no estate plan? The courts will make all of your decisions, regardless of the wishes of your loved ones. Your entire estate will go through probate, and a stranger could be named to take charge of it, with a hefty fee to compensate them for their services. Planning is a gift of love to help avoid these pitfalls.
If you have minor children and no will, the court will name a guardian to raise your children. Will it be someone you would have picked or your distant cousin who lives hundreds of miles away? There’s no way to know.
Assets titled properly or those with a named beneficiary will go directly to those named on the accounts without going through probate. This is one of the attractions of trusts, which never become public.
Part of creating an estate plan includes reviewing your accounts and beneficiary designations to ensure that the people named as your beneficiaries are still correct. If you have any old accounts you haven’t looked at in decades, now is the time to ensure that you’re not leaving your pension to an old college pal—unless that’s your intention.
Estate planning is a gift of love because you empower the present by planning for the future. Chances are you’ve read many news articles about celebrities with massive estate problems because they failed to plan. Leaving a mess for your family to deal with is probably not the legacy you had in mind.
Give yourself and your loved ones the peace of mind of knowing you’ve taken care of your estate plan. Be remembered as someone who cared enough to do the right thing. Consult with an experienced estate planning attorney today.
Reference: CNBC Money Report (Jan. 7, 2025) “Here’s why estate planning is a gift for your family”
